Sometimes, it isn't a Q of "good enough". There's only "are you Good?" This, I believe, to be an intrinsic merit. It's like a cosmic predetermination.
Everyone's into value judgments. And we don't get to pick or choose our advocates. But one can either say, "I Am Good", and just walk down the street, or allow willing believers to assist, give, do to allow for your "liftoff"...or, there can remain tears because the grapes are too high, the short list as desired are indifferent, and every other avenue/candidate is "Not Good Enough" as Self thinks. I'm all for tears, rage, and tears of rage. But know why you're shedding them.
I lived my life eating no ice cream, rather than the flavor I wanted. Decide now, if that's how that goes.
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